NATIONAL RESOURCES

Written By UDORO NATASHA

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Here you will find national resources.

As we grow, our services will grow and become more in-depth. Some of our program services are under development and work in progress. As of now we can offer more established businesses and orgs that have accumulated a wealth of divorce topics and information. We hope that you find these helpful!

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TEXAS RESIDENTS ONLY

***IF YOU LIVE IN TEXAS and in 1 of the following counties:

  1. BELL

  2. MCCLENNAN

  3. TRAVIS 

At this time we can only serve a very limited number of TX counties BUT our goal is to incorporate more counties and states in the future.

___________________________________________ In case you get overwhelmed, a little reminder to woosah…take a breath…You are worthy, you are Able to Move forward! You are ScootAble!

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***Some resources are income-based. Be sure to check any qualifications:

Food insecurity is a huge issue that families face let alone having to experience with a single parent. According to Salvation Army “30.3% of households headed by single women are food insecure.”

source: Salvation Army

  • Podcasts

    • Divorced Girl Smiling (Divorcee, Journalist & Helper Jackie Pilossoph) - not specific to just women

      • may be able to connect you to divorce professionals (does not have an all inclusive list of professionals in all states)

  • Counseling

    GROW THERAPY(covered by insurance)

    BETTER HELP (adult/teen - out of pocket expense but may be eligible for reimbursement through insurance to cover some of the costs, costs vary by state).

    TEEN COUNSELING (virtual sessions, out of pocket expense, can cancel anytime for any reason)

  • NEW MOMMIES

    If you are pregnant or just had a baby and feeling overwhelmed, you can call the

    NATIONAL MATERNAL MENTAL HEALTH HOTLINE 24/7 free confidential support Call or text 1-833-TLC-MAMA (1-833-852-6262). TTY users can use a preferred relay service or dial 711 and then 1-833-852-6262.

    Interpreter services in 60 languages

  • SUICIDE

    The emotional toll of divorce can be extremely devastating. If you are having troubling or suicidal thoughts please reach out to the:

    NATIONAL SUICIDE CRISIS LIFELINE 24/7 free confidential support call 988 (yes just those 3 numbers) or text 988, online chat available.

    NATIONAL ALLIANCE ON MENTAL HEALTH 1.800.950.6264 M - F 10a -10p EST or text “Helpline” to 62640. Additional resources available for adults, young adults and teens.

    VETERANS CRISIS LINE 24/7 dial 988, then press 1 or text 838255, online chat available

  • Co-parenting

    Soooo because some divorces can be a wee bit nasty and extremely challenging for parents to get along. There are tools that can make interaction/communication more tolerable with coordinating schedules, sharing receipts etc...

    The following are useful apps:

    OUR FAMILY WIZARD (free for low income parents, discounted for military families, free 30 day trial)

    ONWARD APP (free 30 day trial)

    CUSTODY X EXCHANGE is an online platform in which you can create your own parenting plan or custody agreement for how your child(ren) will be cared for. They offer a step-by-step guide and also offers a communication feature.

    • click pricing for more information

    • They do have an app however per their website “Yes, we have apps for Windows, iOS and Android, but they're not in the app stores. App stores charge a 30% fee on every purchase. To avoid passing that extra cost on to you, we're using a method that installs directly from the browser.”

    • There is a trial you can sign up for before subscribing but would have limited features

  • DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

    It can be a very fearful and dangerous time for some during and after the divorce process. Should you find yourself fearful for your safety and/or children please please call 911. You can also use the following:

    NATIONAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HOTLINE (24/7 call (800.799.7233, TTY 800.787.3224 text 88788 to chat)

    NATIONAL SEXUAL ASSAULT HOTLINE (24/7 call 1.800.656.4673, chat)

  • FIND A SHELTER DOMESTIC SHELTERS (chat availalble, can also search for a shelter near you)

  • DIY DIVORCE

    The following are resources for an uncontested divorce.

    DIY is not just for home improvement but meaning “do it yourself” without a lawyer.

  • You can check via the listed resources here to see if you are eligible through your state to file yourself (called pro-se). If you file yourself keep in mind you will have to pay court filing fees which vary by state as low as $80 - $450.

    Be aware that some of these sites have lengthy questionnaires to help best service your needs so be sure you can dedicate enough time to complete:

  • court filing fees may NOT be included

    3 STEP DIVORCE (Offers step-by-step filing paperwork procedures, only $300

    or offers 3 payment plan options. With the lowest option offering 4 monthly payments of just $84)

    DIVORCE WRITER (currently offering special pricing of $137 for divorce with children + $20 for printing and shipping)

    divorce pricing lists current prices

    COMPLETE CASE ($300)

    divorce pricing lists current prices

    DIVORCE.COM (will file for you, $749 or offers 4 monthly payments of $187.25 via Affirm, does NOT include local court fees, may be able to connect you to an independent licensed attorney in your area if needed)

    Mediation

    If you’re like ok I don’t want a DIY divorce but not a lawyer either. You can get a mediator.

    A mediator is a neutral figure and professional who is like the “middle man or woman.”

    Mediation is supposed to be “cheaper” than going to court.

    DIVORCE.COM (has mediator assistance available via their tiered packages. They offer a single mediator session for $250)

    If you’re interested in learning more about mediation you can go to our Divorce Stats page and/or there is a Beginner’s Guide via:

    SURVIVE DIVORCE.

    Survive Divorce also has some informative info on the financial pitfalls of divorce:

    SURVIVE DIVORCE - FINANCIAL PITFALLS

    Lawyer

    DIVORCE MAG has a directory of divorce lawyers, mediators, and financial professionals across several states. Their list is not an all inclusive list for all states.

    • You can filter the results by category, location and distance

  • ALCOHOL OR SUBSTANCE (DRUG) ABUSE

    If you find yourself struggling with alcohol or substance abuse and need support and guidance you can look to:

    DRUG & ALCOHOL ADDICTION HOTLINE 24/7, call 1.888.966.8152 free confidential support 

    (provided by American Addiction Centers)

    Also provides:

    • information(advice)

    • resources

    • explore treatment options (NO OBLIGATION to enter treatment)

    • Should you find yourself fearful for your safety and in an emergency situation please please call 911.

    POISON CONTROL 24/7 call 1.800.222.1222 free confidential poison control and prevention experts

  • Other Informative Websites

  • DIVORCE MAG (a 27 year old online magazine that has an award winning divorce blog, hub of divorce topics and articles, has notable features appearing in CNN, The Washington Post, etc….)

    PARENTS.COM (pretty self explanatory resource on parenting in general. You can search topics on divorce.)

    DIVORCED MOMS

    THE DIVORCE SCHOOL

    INSIDER MOMMUNE (this is a link to an Insider article about “Mommune”, A mommune is a group of moms living together under 1 roof working together to help each other raise their children. Although this may not be for everyone, it could be an option for someone)

DISCLAIMER: As our team works hard to research and provide resources, at any time these resources may change in their scope of service, discounts, assistance and availability. For any listed organizations and businesses, please be sure to check their websites or contact them directly for any changes regarding assistance, eligibility, scope, etc..

If a listed resource is no longer operating, out of business or no longer offering assistance, please email us via the Contact Us page.

Likewise if you know of a useful resource please email us (via the Contact Us page) and we will see if it may be helpful to our special families.

Thank you for your support and patience as we are scooting along!

EMPOWER HOUR! LET’S PROVIDE EMPOWERMENT TO OUR DIVORCEES…SUPPORT OUR CAUSE!

***For more info regarding our DISCLAIMER for listed businesses please see our Eek The "D" word! page

UDORO NATASHA
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